Happy Friday, everyone! I, for one, am really happy it’s Friday. It’s been a long, emotional week and I’m ready to carve out some time for relaxation. What about you? Any fun plans?
This week I attended the Memorial Service for my friend, Carrie Gilmore, who recently passed away. Some of you knew her as well, and it felt good to stand beside you and remember her spirit. During the slideshow at the reception, images of slumber parties, snow days playing outside, dinners with friends and many such small moments were on display. As I watched the photos cycle, I was again struck by how it’s the little moments that make up a big life. It’s not the grand gestures, but small moments like pancake breakfasts or birthday celebrations with cake and ice cream that stay with us.
All of these moments need a back drop and it’s most often called home. Our homes don’t need to look magazine worthy for life to occur, but we do need space for things like play, dinners, hobbies, relaxation and gatherings. We need to be intentional about making space, both physically and emotionally, for the moments of life to unfold.
I was recently selected to be on the launch team for Melissa Michael’s new book, entitled, Make Room for What You Love. I’m so excited to share this book with you because it so perfectly captures the habits and ideas that lead to creating a purposeful home and why it’s important. In the introduction, she writes, “Whatever our style, our home should be life giving and soul refreshing, a soft spot to land on a hard day and a beautiful place to recharge and rejuvenate. The things we bring into our home can be a reflection of who we are and the life we live.”
MOST COMMON PROBLEM: “Too Much Stuff”
The problem I most often hear clients and friends alike complain about is owning too much stuff. Piles of “stuff,” better known as clutter, take over our homes and get in the way of living life. So what do most of us do? We feel overwhelmed and just choose to not make any decisions at all. Melissa however, makes an incredible observation in this book. Our indecision is actually a decision to continue living with clutter. Stop and reread that last line. I know, crazy, right?
This realization alone was so powerful and made me view my home in a whole new way. It motivated me into action in a BIG WAY and had me questioning what things and spaces I had been postponing making decisions about, like my closet, our bonus room and our garage. It turns out that, “the more decisive you can be, the less clutter you’ll face.” This past week, I was making LOTS of decisions and filling the garbage bin and boxes destined for Goodwill.
INSPIRATION & TIPS
This book is not only about clutter management. Melissa offers so much inspiration and concrete suggestions for how to set goals, cultivate habits and reimagine our homes so that we can live the life we’ve imagined for ourselves and our families. She invites us set goals and reconnect with the home we’ve dreamed of creating. She provides great ideas for how to achieve those goals. Here are some examples:
- Embrace the Pursuit of Less: “Simplification of both our inner and outer world will allow us to take a deep breath and appreciate more fully what we really value.”
- Spend Mornings Intentionally: “If you want to reorganize your home, you have to make order a priority in your day, starting with the moment you open your eyes. Mornings become like dominoes, setting the pace and tone for the entire day.”
- Know What to Keep and Where to Put It: “The two most important decisions you can focus on to bring order to any space are: 1) what to keep, and 2) where it belongs.” If you can’t find a place for an item, chances are you probably don’t need it or it doesn’t belong in that room.
- Find More Joy in Your Home: “How could you find more join the space you have? Take a walk around your house and look at closets and rooms. Are you honoring and making the most of the rooms you have, or are they filled with too much stuff? How could you pare down to better reflect the space you have to love your home even more?”
I think there is something for everyone in this book. I consider myself fairly organized, but this book galvanized me into action like no other book thus far. And most significantly, it made me consider how I make decisions about the items taking up space in my home. I think you are all going to love this one!
Enjoy your weekend! Let me know what you think of the book…you can pick up a copy on Amazon! xoxo ~Maria